Which Fleshlight or Fleshlight insert is right for you depends on several factors, including the size of your penis, the type of sensation you want to experience, the opening that you want to penetrate and even your colour preference.
The most popular first-time choice is the classic Pink Lady Fleshlight - the best-selling male sex toy in the world.
Take your time to consider the different Fleshlight inserts - they all offer something different. And don't forget that when you've enjoyed one, you can come back for another!
Penis length and girth
When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally importantly as length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Use a tape measure to make sure you get the right measurements.
The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large an insert diameter will be a less sensational experience.
These are the Fleshlight insert styles ranked from most tight to least tight:
Ultra Tight, Super Tight, Wonder Wave / Speed Bump / Super Ribbed, Stamina Training Unit, Original
Larger than average men often choose: Original or Speed Bump.
Smaller than average men often choose: Super Tight.
Your Fleshlight colour options
The first thing to consider is the Fleshlight insert colour. This is an easy decision, just choose whatever colour suits you best. When you choose the ice colour, you are really selecting 'no colour'.
The lack of pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest. Make sure to choose an ice case, if you decide on an ice insert.
Your Fleshlight opening options
Next, you will need to decide on the orifice or opening, which is the external appearance of the Fleshlight insert. Choose the orifice that is the most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular choice, followed by the butt.
Stealth Fleshlights Butt Fleshlights Vagina Fleshlights Mouth Fleshlights
The Stealth discreet is ideal for users that travel with their Fleshlight or someone who is concerned about family members/roomates discovering their sex toy.
The mouth is choosen by men who prefer the experience of a blowjob over the rest. However, there are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the thinnest of the three, letting you get to the texture sooner, and the lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access.
Your Fleshlight sensation options
The final and most important step is to choose the sensation. Do you prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Use the size chart to help you to decide.
| Original Speed Bump Stamina Training Unit Super Ribbed Super Tight Wonder Wave Ultra Tight |
3/4 inch (19 mm) 1/2 inch (13 mm) 1/2 inch (13 mm) 1/2 inch (13 mm) 1/2 inch (13 mm) 1/2 inch (13 mm) 1/4 inch (10 mm) |
Smooth Textured Textured Textured Smooth Textured Smooth |


